Charles Edward Allen

A Final Salute to Charles “Dump” “Big Al” Edward Allen:

A Life of Service, Love, and Legacy

With hearts heavy with sorrow yet lifted by fond and cherished memories, we gather to honor the extraordinary life of a man who meant so much to so many. The passing of Retired Army SFC Charles “Dump” “Big Al” Edward Allen is a monumental loss—a seismic shift for those privileged to have known him. As we navigate this moment, we invite the full spectrum of emotions—grief, gratitude, love, and the bittersweet ache of treasured memories—to embrace his legacy.

Charles E. Allen's story began on the crisp morning of December 26, 1958, in the heart of the Great Smoky Mountains in Sylva, North Carolina. Born to Martha Jean Bryson and Robert Junior Allen, he was the fifth of eight siblings in a home filled with love, adventure, and an unbreakable bond. Even as a mischievous boy, Charles’ spirit shone brightly. Tales of his daring escapades in downtown Sylva were legendary, including the night his mother allowed him to spend a night in jail as a lesson he never forgot.

Nicknamed “Dump” by his older brother Danny due to his love of chicken and dumplings—a dish he savored throughout his life—Charles carried this moniker with pride. He would later channel his love of food into creating "Al’s BBQ," a testament to his culinary passion and his deep connection to community.

As a proud Eagle at Sylva Webster High School, Charles donned the #89 jersey on the football field, graduating in 1979. At the age of 19, he embarked on his life’s mission, enlisting in the United States Army—a commitment he carried with honor and unyielding determination.

Charles married Yvette D. Cordy, with whom he raised two daughters, Kahtonna and Kahnisa. Though life took them on separate paths, their enduring friendship and shared love for their family were a testament to his character. As a father, Charles was a fortress of strength, a gentle listener, and a safe haven for his daughters and their friends. His influence reached beyond the walls of his home, inspiring his children to pursue excellence and serve with the same steadfastness he embodied.

As a soldier, he was a heroic and steadfast father. Fearless and unwavering, he instilled vigilance and readiness in his daughters, preparing them for life’s challenges. At home, when not on duty or deployment, the soundtrack of Tour of Duty and films like Glory echoed his values of honor and resilience. He became a father figure to all of his daughters’ friends, offering them a haven of safety and understanding. Known for his calm demeanor and remarkable ability to listen without reacting impulsively, he was a gentle giant—a teddy bear at heart, yet capable of transforming into a protective grizzly when faced with disrespect. His military influence left an indelible mark on his daughters, inspiring both to join Army JROTC, with Kahtonna eventually serving in active duty. The Uncle Sam poster on their bedroom door, emblazoned with “Be All You Can Be,” was a constant symbol of his encouragement for them to pursue their dreams fearlessly and without limits.

A Distinguished Military Career

Charles E. Allen’s military service was nothing short of heroic. As an Armor Crewman and Cavalry Scout, he served with distinction in Operation Desert Storm, among other missions. The "Big Al" moniker is one from his military family. His career took him across the globe—from Texas to Germany, California to Kentucky—and forged unbreakable bonds with his brothers and sisters in arms.

 Among his numerous honors are:

· Meritorious Service Medal

· Army Commendation Medal (4th Award)

· Army Achievement Medal

· Army Good Conduct Medal (6th Award)

· National Defense Service Medal

· Southwest Asia Service Medal with 1 Bronze Star

· Noncommissioned Officers Professional Development Ribbon (Advanced Level)

· Army Service Ribbon

· Overseas Service Ribbon (2nd Award)

· Kuwait Liberation Medal

· Caliber Pistol Expert Qualification Badge

· .45 Caliber Pistol Expert Qualification Badge

· M9MM Pistol Expert Qualification Badge

· Driver and Mechanic Badge

· US Army Gold Recruiter Badge with 3 Sapphire Achievement Stars

 After 22 years of dedicated service, Charles retired as a fully disabled, honorable veteran. Yet, his commitment to excellence and community never waned.

A Legacy Rooted in Family and Community

Returning to the Smoky Mountains he loved, Charles poured his energy into family, friends, and his beloved Sylva. He created the annual Fourth of July Celebration at Bryson Park in memory of his mother, a tradition that evolved into the celebrated "Al’s BBQ." His hands crafted countless decks and home additions, each bearing the meticulous touch of a perfectionist.

Charles’ Harley-Davidson motorcycle became both his solace and a tool for service. “Live to ride, ride to live” was not merely a motto but a way of life that epitomized his free spirit and unwavering dedication to helping others. The eagle always representing himself, not taking on the air, but the road before him.

Final Farewell

On his final day, Charles found peace in the simplicity of home—watching movies, savoring time with loved ones, and overlooking the river and mountains he held dear. At the age of 65, though his departure was sudden, his life was a resounding declaration of a “job well done” and the resounding his voice singing something he would chant to his children “ain’t nothin can be finer than to be in Caroliner.” He’d seen the world, and now the world sees him.

“Dump” is in the heart of many many people. We are grateful that his legacy will live on through memories, his family, friends, and worldwide military brethren. He has only left us behind physically, but now spiritually resides within us all. His children, Kahtonna C. Allen of Augusta Georgia (44) and Kahnisa C. Allen of Augusta Georgia (40). His grandchildren Kallen Denise Allen (10), Kaelyn Junisa Allen (8), Kai Jaxon Thompson (7), Karter Jamil Thompson (6) all of Augusta Georgia. Siblings Polly Jackson of Waynesville NC (deceased), Danny Allen of Sylva, David Marshall Allen of Sylva, Earl Allen of Sylva (deceased), Elizabeth Allen of Raleigh NC, Douglas Allen . Tammy Allen) of Sylva, and Lynn Allen of Raleigh NC. A host of uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, cousins, behold the Allen name and legacy. To all, Charles leaves a legacy of love, strength, and resilience. 

Charles was a presence like no other—a commanding air, a heart full of tenderness, a distinguished walk, and a laugh that resonated with authenticity. His voice, his stories, and his unwavering love will forever echo in the hearts of those he touched.

As he often sang to his daughters: “This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine.” “Daddy, your light was NEVER little—it was so BIG. It blazed fiercely and now shines eternally.” Love, Your girls.

In tribute to “Dump,” we invite attendees to wear a flash of camouflage—an homage to his enduring spirit as an infinite soldier and his love for life. 

A repast will take place following the services at Liberty Baptist Church in Sylva, NC.

 Rest in power and in peace, Charles E. Allen, Daddy, Dump, Big Al, Retired SFC Allen, Charles. May your journey be one of boundless peace, and may your legacy inspire us all to live with honor, courage, and love. Though words may falter in expressing the depth of this loss, we gain much in his spirit. Let us hold space for the tears, the stories, and the shared moments that keep him near to our hearts.